Emily and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school."On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker."
Emily answered,” You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
When we always forget mutual respect and courtesy, we may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. Frequently exchanging teasing remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
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Words can heal and words can hurt. Using the right words improves good relationship. On the other hand, using the wrong words hurts the other person’s feeling and as a result the relationship sours. It becomes worst if the other person is having a “kiasu” attitude. When he or she does not want to be teased, it is a natural response that he or she will give it back to you, very badly.
A Chinese saying puts it this way, “病從口入, 楇從口出 Sickness enters into our mouths, and trouble comes out from our mouths.” When we have eaten unclean foods, we fall sick and may get food poisoning. When we have spoken unclean words, we get into big troubles.
If we speak bad words that hurt, obviously these words of lies, gossip, rumor and carry tales will damage our relationship with other people. On the other hands, if we speak good words that heal, surely these words of encouragement and motivation will improve our relationship with other people.
When married couples always speak words of care and concern, words of understanding and appreciation, words of kindness and love, they will eventually enjoy more and more of their companionship and live on much happier together.
How true it is that “a good word makes it glad” as written in Proverbs 12:25 and ”pleasant words are like a honeycomb; sweetness to the soul and health to the bones” in Proverbs 16:24.
1 comment:
I remember the song by the BEE GEES "Words". It's only words....
Yes, sometimes using the wrong words can get us into hot soup. So we must be very careful with our choice of words when we speak. Some people are very sensitive and they get angry easily bc the wrong words used on them. Many people are of the kiasu type nowadays. When we talk to kiasu people, we must be very careful. On the other hand, we must have a sense of humour. Instead of feeling hurt, we make a joke out of it. When people ask me what I am doing now. I always answer I'm a land surveyor, walking round the town
shopping or posting letters. The response is a good laugh. As a retiree, I always encounter such questions and I always like to answer in a light hearted way. Why be so serious? I'm enjoying my retirement.
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